Slightly Self-Obsessed

Thursday, April 25, 2013

Now and Then

Bry and I have spent the last five years trying to get our butts graduated and back to China. Now that we're nearly so ready to return that we're looking into plane tickets, it has had us wondering: What were things like back when we were first getting ready to go?

In the beginning of 2008, Rachel and I were Sophomores* at Humboldt State University.


*Technically I should specify that we were in our second year at HSU.  Credit-wise, we were probably still iffy.

Here are some fun facts from 2008:


  • 2008 was designated the International Year of Languages
  • Cyprus and Malta adopted the Euro
  • The price of petroleum hits $100/barrel for the first time

And let's be honest, I'm reading these off of Wikipedia. Here's the link!

Pretty cool stuff, though. In any case, Bry and I were in school. Bry was learning to play saxophone while I attempted clarinet. Times were good. We were getting along in life just fine living off of financial aid. It wasn't until we returned from China that the need for jobs as well as financial aid would become an issue. The Spice Girls were on tour again. Frankly, for a self-involved college student, times were awesome!

In May 2008, Bry and I began working for HSU cleaning dorms. We also rented our first apartment. We owned a camera but apparently we couldn't be bothered to take pictures. When you're saving every penny, doing laundry is as much a hassle as it is expensive. When laundry day rolls around and you FINALLY have to do your laundry, our house usually looked like this:

And you thought we looked skinny now!

We never quite got this bad: go here!

A more typical day in our house now looks more like this:

Granted, this is from Halloween, but still...

So, let's turn back time to 2008 and make a few comparisons! 

Jobs:

In 2008, Bry and I spent the summer working for HSU Housing and Dining. We only got paid once a month, so budgeting became an issue for us for the first time. We went on large shopping trips on pay day and by the end of the month we didn't even have enough money for bread to make sandwiches for our lunches at work. Half of our June and July paychecks went towards buying plane tickets at around $800 a piece. We were working full eight hour days, five days a week. We were often so exhausted that we would spend half of our lunch breaks napping instead of eating. (Cleaning all day is more exhausting than you might imagine!)

At present, we are both employed but in separate places (GASP!). I am, and have been since February 2011, working at Bed Bath and Beyond. Since I have FINALLY graduated, I have open availability at work. What this means is that some weeks, like this week, I get nearly all full days at work. I have no fixed schedule, so every week my hours and days I work vary. It keeps you on your toes. It also makes it nearly impossible for Bry and I to accomplish anything together during the week. I work a lot of nights so we hardly cross paths. 

I work five days a week, Monday- Friday at The Depot on the Humboldt State University campus as a "cashier"- which is really the umbrella term they give to someone responsible for money but ALSO anything else that needs done (cleaning, stocking, subbing for other positions, being harassed by angry customers).  On Monday, April 22nd, I had my first shift at Alice's Steak and Sushi Restaurant in Blue Lake Casino and Hotel.  My schedule there is Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday- but they want to add me on Saturday as well, probably next week.  SO- I calculated that I may be working 50 hours per week soon, but only while HSU is in session.

Food:

In 2008 we really did not have a lot of it.  Our shopping  trips consisted of filling a shopping cart on payday, and pushing it all 1.63 miles back to our apartment.  We found the dollar section of CVS really helpful, and began grabbing instant coffee mix from there.  This is where our coffee habit really took off since we got up at 6 AM after going to bed a midnight on a regular basis.  (Ah, to be young again...)  The lunches we provided ourselves for work consisted of rice cakes, peanut butter and honey sandwiches, some fruit, and a Caprisun.  Dinner was some pasta variation most nights, with either frozen peas or corn to make sure we were a little healthy.  (We would later learn that neither of these are a vegetable.)  Our roommate was a vegetarian, so meat was usually not on the menu... but even when it could be found in our house it was in the form of canned tuna.  Yum.

Here in 2013 I would love to tell you that we're better off, but I can't*.  With four people living together the food supply runs thin pretty quick, and our shopping trips are few and far between.  This may be because each of us has a steady supply of food available to us outside of the house.  I work with food everyday, and can grab some whenever I want when I take a break.  Alia visits me at work several times in one day, and will help herself to whatever is available or easy to grab.  Rachel has a WalMart right by her workplace, and shops there to keep her locker fully stocked with snacks.  David grabs cafeteria food for lunch most days since I am just too overwhelmed to make him a nice lunch like I used to. 

*Our food choices and cooking skills have grown dramatically, but our budget and time limitations do not allow us to craft any masterpieces in the kitchen.

Apartment:

2008: I think it was someone's birthday...


New Year's Eve 2012

Clearly we've learned to party harder.

In 2008, we had just moved into our first apartment and were lacking in furniture. The green couch seen above was a hand-me-down from Mango, but our other couch was carried home from the side of the road by me and our roommate Gabe while my boyfriend at the time carried the cushions.  The green couch was huge, but held together in one spot by staples, and the (formerly) white couch was sooo comfy in part because it was JUST THAT OLD and in part because it did not have any legs.  It sat right on the floor and was full of spiders.  These two pieces of furniture were a huge improvement from the pieces of foam we had layered on the floor previously to form some couch-like structure.  Other than that, the only other piece of furniture we owned was the table (that had been in our family for years, and was still covered in teeth-marks from teething twins and crayon doodles) and chairs (held together by wood glue) that were also from Mango. Bry and I were sharing a room. Our furniture consisted of nothing. We were allowed to take home things worth under $50 left behind on campus as we cleaned dorms, and slowly over the summer gathered enough twin sized foam mattress toppers to each have a three inch thick bed of sorts in which we laid our sleeping bags over. Our "desktop" computer was set up right on the floor. We didn't have internet, however, so we never really used it. We filled our kitchen in much the same way. Any plates or kitchen utensils left behind in the dorms made it into our backpacks as we left work. 

Nowadays we have real furniture! The very couch I am sitting on was purchased AT A FURNITURE STORE!!! It has a matching reclining chair. Our TV sits atop a rather heavy TV stand purchased at Target. Our apartment, though messy as all hell, is actually furnished with real people things. (Mostly because when we moved into this apartment a year ago this month,we went on a giant dump run and got rid of most of our old stuff which was quickly followed by a subsequent gargantuan shopping spree.) Also, there are four of us here,as opposed to three back in 2008. This means our individual rent is stupid cheap. It also means four people fighting for one bathroom...

Saving:

I already said we worked for HSU Housing and Dining Services in 2008 as student housekeepers, and you know we managed to save money by taking the stuff students left in the dorms after the move-out date.  We found such exciting things as: pens, entirely unused notebooks, a textbook, plates, cups, books, movies, a microwave, decorations, Christmas lights, skinny jeans (of which I only recently disposed of), and so much more!  Every single day was like a scavenger hunt.  I believe we collected the loose changed we gathered then as well, though not much was to be had.  Really, we saved money by splitting all our food, hardly washing our clothes, reading for entertainment instead of leaving the house (though we DID see The Dark Knight midnight showing, one of the only movies we saw all summer), and keeping our shopping limited since we got free stuff everyday anyway.

At present, we are saving money through several means. Firstly, we have set up our GoFundMe site. At the time of this blog being written, we've raised $685! We have also been rolling coins. We've got $73 from rolling coins, and we'll be cashing our current rolled coins on the first. This rolling coins plan turned out to be a pretty good idea. Another great way to save money is to convert it in your head. That $15 dress at Ross that is SO CHEAP is actually 90 yuan. That $15 dress will buy me 90 bottles of water. That $15 dress will buy me six shirts. That $15 dress will buy me 36 bubble teas. That $15 dress is one jiao I can hand out to 900 different beggars on the street. That $15 dress... is gonna stay on the rack.


And almost a week after Picnic Days, I still have hay in my purse.

  

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

A Choice Has Been Made!

Our decision has been made. Bry and I will be working for the Xi'an Aeronautical Polytechnic Institute!

http://www.xihang.com.cn/

You can check out their website if you like. Or follow the next link to see what the campus looks like.

http://123.138.76.68:8080/xygk/xyjg.asp

We're incredibly excited to return. We should be leaving the last week of August, to start work on September 1st. Sometime next month we should be able to buy our plane tickets (at which point this will really begin to feel official).

Many thanks to all our family and friends who have donated thus far. We only have the money to buy one plane ticket so far (good thing we only have to buy one way tickets this time around) so additional donations would be more than welcome. Our donation site goes all the way down to donations of $5, or if you see us in person we're even collecting and rolling spare change. Any online donations can be donated here:

http://www.gofundme.com/20tiu4

A batch of cookies was baked for Bryce (Dammit, Patrice!) after he was generous enough to donate to us an entire jar of coins.  We have another batch ready to be made for whoever donates in our area next. Thank you cards have been going out and the rest will hit the mail just as soon as we get more stamps.

Once again, many thanks to all of our supporters, and future thanks to people who will donate after reading this.

We're a third of the way towards our goal!!!

Thursday, April 4, 2013

As promised...

As you most likely know, Bry and I are trying our absolute hardest to get ourselves back to China this year. This is a blog to show our appreciation to the thirteen lovely people who have donated online as well as the handful of people have donated to us in person.

In the order of donations received, here are your thanks:

 Katie- You were our very first person to donate. Thank you so much!

Alia- You begrudgingly donated to us, but thank you.

Shrah- You donated enough to get a small present from China. We'll give you a list of options as soon as we get over there. And thank you!

Buttercup- You also donated enough to get a small present. Thank you! We'll give you some options as soon as we're there.

Mason- Thank you!

Papa Rook- I wasn't sure you meant it when you said you'd donate to us at Ruth McGowens, but you came through and thank you! You can be expecting a little gift from China.

Andrew- Thank you! You can expect a wee gift in the mail.

Michelle- As of yet, you are the only total stranger to donate to us. Thank you! We would mail you a thank you coin, but your address doesn't show up correctly on the site. I'm sorry.

Jessica- Thank you! Your donation is enough to buy us a whole meal in China.

Caitlin- Thank you for the donation, and we're sorry we won't make it to your graduation. You can expect a small present from China since we have to miss it. :)

Lori- Better known to us as Kat's mom. Thank you so much! You've been like a second mother to us for a very long time. You can expect small gifts for you and Gary.

Bryce- (Dammit, Patrice!) Thank you so much! Once it was all totaled, your donation of a mixture of coins and dollars has been our largest so far. You will be receiving an extra special gift from China.

Edi- (Though I still picture it as Eddie) Thank you! We shall give you a list of gifts to choose from once we've arrived in China.

Chris and Melinda- *squee* Thank you. You two can expect two gifts from China, seeing as how there are two of you.

And lastly...

Grandpap Fix- Your donation is very much appreciated. You've done so much for us over the years, it's hard to even keep track. You can expect a gift from us from China.

For any future donations (I'm hopeful) , we'll write a new blog of thanks.

Once again, a resounding: Thank you all so much! We're so grateful to have friends like you all.

Can you feel our excitement???

Friday, March 15, 2013

An Act of Random Kindness

Bry and I are trying to get to China. Fair enough, you know that already. But you may or may not know that Bry and I have been rolling coins we find. We both work as cashiers and whenever someone chooses to leave behind their change, since January we have been taking those coins home and rolling them. I won't divulge how much we've managed to save up that way so far, but it has proved worthwhile. So, here's what happened tonight:

I had managed to find a whopping three pennies to tuck aside today, when I was put up front to cover my coworker's break. When you work in one place long enough, you notice the people who return frequently. We have a gentlemen that comes in every few weeks (perhaps more frequently, but during times I'm not working) who is homeless and usually comes in for our clearance candles. He's never anything but polite and I've always wished I had some way to help him out. 

Tonight he came in as I was up front. He came up to the counter to purchase one singular spoon. The spoon cost $1.99, according to the sign. He handed me two dollars. I hit total and the register added 16 cents tax. I  reluctantly tell him the total aloud and ask if he has fifteen cents. He said he doesn't think he does but quickly walks outside to check. As he's gone I recall that I have at least that much in my change purse and contemplate the morality of shorting my drawer and replacing the fifteen cents he didn't have with my own money when we close in an hour. By the time I made up my mind, he returned. 

He had misheard me and stood before me offering me two quarters. I told him that I only needed fifteen cents and took one quarter from him. He takes his spoon and begins to walk away. I call after him, thinking he must need it, "Did you want your dime?" and he replied, "Keep it. Give it to somebody who needs it."

I was ready to give the man fifteen cents, and in exchange I received a dime to add to our China Fund. 

Thank you, stranger.



Sunday, March 3, 2013

Second Chance

I couldn't originally figure out how to post our video to youtube, but luckily Bry is ... well, she sorted it out.

http://youtu.be/MFFlT8UZEhE

This link will send you to our video explaining why we are trying to get back to China and why we are asking for help getting there. If you can help us out with a donation (Hurray!) please copy and paste this link into a new tab:

http://www.gofundme.com/20tiu4

If you are in the same boat as us financially but would still love to help, please pass along any of these links, or even this blog. We are trying to get back to China for the fall semester 2013.

Anything you can do to help us out would be much appreciated.

There are still some prizes to be won if you donate soon!

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Go Fund Me!

So, Bry and I have discovered an awesome new tool to accomplish dreams! I found a link to a very, very worthy charity and fell in love with the idea. Here is the link to the charity that I first found:

http://www.gofundme.com/20gp60#description

This guy has earned two thousand dollars since I stumbled across this. Good for him! I'm waiting until my next paycheck to donate to him. I browsed the website and fell in love. Hundreds of tiny charities helping people's dreams come true. Awesome! I even stumbled across someone who had used this site to fund their way to China to teach English.

"But wait!" you say. "Isn't that what YOU want to do this year?"

Yes, reader. That IS what Bry and I are planning on doing in the ever-approaching future. (August!) With that in mind, Bry and I decided to create a charity to help fund our plane tickets to China! Bry and I have been working part time (We would take more hours if they'd give them!) and trying to save up as much as we can but little things keep coming up. We're trying so hard that we've even got a box we're putting change into. We managed to collect $10 in change in ONE month.

Every donation to our cause gets you something! Bare minimum you get at least recognition. But you COULD get a small gift from us from China! The sky is the limit!

http://www.gofundme.com/20tiu4?pc=fb_cr

Help make our crazy dreams come true!

Alternatively, you can use the site to fund your own dreams. If you use it, let us know. We'd be happy to send a few bucks your way! (No wonder we're doing this in the first place...)




Friday, December 21, 2012

Endless Work

Earlier tonight I had gotten off work and was waiting for the bus. As I sat, listening to classical music, a watched a car slowly drive pass and look at the rest of us waiting for the bus in the rain rather smugly. After it passed, I stared out into the parking lot and realized how depressing the mixture of my music and the rain seemed.

Hit play!

Listen to the song above and picture yourself sitting on a bench, barely shielded from the rain, and thinking about your life. Yeah, it's as depressing as it, literally, sounds. On that note, I'm on day three of a six day stretch of work. All eight hours days. The next day off I get is Christmas. I may never have been more excited about Christmas.

Christmas, bring it on!